Monday, February 15, 2010

Illinois Fathers Gazette - Announcements


    Our next scheduled event is for Wednesday, February 17th at the Peoria County Courthouse. Back in November, Judge Richard McCoy responded to Pro Se litigant David Ihben's request for shared parenting time positively by encouraging the Mother to step outside the courtroom and work out a shared time parenting arrangement with the Father (David Ihben). This shared parenting agreement was in place and working out quite well for 6 weeks.


     During a December 11th hearing that was supposedly for other issues, the Judge did a complete reversal on his earlier shared parenting speech, and instead made the familiar statement, "if thw two of you cannot work together, then I have no choice other than to give full custody to the mother and visitation to the father." Our member, David Ihben, explained that he was holding out his hand to work together with the Mother, and that the shared parenting agreement had worked without any problems during its 6 week duration. But because the Mother took the stance that she "could not work together with the Father", the Judge took the shared parenting agreement away from the Father. Keep in mind that typically, a Judge will not change a custody arrangement without a major change in circumstances having had occurred.


     David is in the process of taking this decision reversal to the appelate court. Part of this process is going through the hearing with Judge McCoy that is called a motion to reconsider. On February 17th, at the Peoria Courthouse at 2:30 in the afternoon, David intends to present as evidence the transcript of Judge McCoys own words where he praises shared parenting.

     We are asking our membership to consider showing up on the afternoon of Wednesday, February 17th at the Peoria County Courthouse. We will start by conducting a peaceful protest outside the courthouse beginning at 1pm. At 2:15, we will move inside the courtroom to witness the hearing.

    If David and Illinois Fathers can find some success in reinstating David's original shared parenting arrangement, it would be an excellent precedent setting case that the rest of us can use. Please consider taking the time to attend the important event at the Peoria Courthouse on the afternoon of Wednesday, February 17th. The Peoria County Courthouse is located in Peoria on the corner of Jefferson and Main.

     Also taking place next week, the RADAR organization will be conducting a major lobbying effort and media effort called ABUSEGATE. The purpose of ABUSEGATE is to shine some light on the problem of rampant false accusations, restraining order abuses, and other abuses of fathers, families and children that are currently taking place. Early next week we will release more information about how you can help.
     One last thing, we are holding a support group meeting the evening of Monday, February 22nd at the Urbana Public Library (Champaign area). The meeting will begin at 6:30pm. A big thank you goes out to member Ms. Joni Cox for arranging this support group meeting in her area. We hope to see you there !

9 comments:

david-ihben said...

thanks to all who supported me and my daughter

thanks
david ihben

david-ihben said...

IN PEORIA COUNTY ILLINOIS JUDGE RICHARD McCOY THREATENS CHILDREN RIGHTS GROUPS FROM THE BENCH AT DAVID IHBENS HEARING ON APRIL 28 2010-2PM

david-ihben said...

ALSO ON APRIL 28, 2010 JUDGE McCOY REFUSED MY RECONSIDERATION OF JOINT CUSTODY, McCOY READ A PRE-WRITTEN 3 PAGE LETTER DESCRIBING A LIST OF BAD PAPER WORK HE SAID I FILED WHICH THE APPELLATE COURT EVEN SAYS (GEST FLESHMAN )IS NOT TRUE AND FULL OF THE BIGGEST MADE UP LIES I AND OTHERS PRESENT HAVE EVER HEARD.ALL WERE VERY UNTRUE.EVERYTHING JUDGE McCOY SAID WAS A LIE AND I HAVE MOUNTAINS OF EVIDENCE TO BACK IT UP .THE ILLINOIS FAMILY COURT SYSTEM IS AFRAID OF US NOW. WE ARE GAINING MOMENTOM AND A LOUD VOICE .WE NEED TO STICK TOGETHER NOW MOST OF ALL AND GET OUR RIGHTS AND OUR CHILDREN'S RIGHTS RETURNED TO US. THAT WERE UNCONSTITUTIONALLY STOLEN FROM US. FROM EVERYONE WHO IS INVOLVED WITHIN THESE UNJUST VERDICTS FROM THE LAW ENFORCEMENT NOT GETTING OUR PARENTAL KIDNAPPED CHILDREN BACK,TO THE STATES ATTORNIES THAT WILL NOT ENFORCE THE RICO ACT OF FEDERAL LAW,OR THE LAWYERS WHO DRAG CASES OUT FOR MONETARY GAIN;FILING FALSE ALLIGATIONS WHILE THE CHILD SUFFERS. AND WORST OF ALL THESE JUDGES WHO WILL NOT PROTECT OUR RIGHTS AND PUNISH AND THREATEN US FOR STICKING UP FOR OUR CHILDREN LIKE JUDGE McCOY HAS NOW DONE. ALL THE EVIDENCE,WITNESSES AND COURT TRANSCRIPTS SUGGEST HE HAS LOST HIS ABILITY TO FOLLOW THE LAW OR HAS SOME HIDDEN AGENDA.ALSO NOT JUST MYSELF,BUT EVERY TORTURE PARENT AND CHILD OF THE ILLINOIS FAMILY COURT SYSTEM. WE NEED TO SPREAD THE WORD ABOUT THESE JUDGES WHO CONTRIBUTES TO ABUSING CHILDREN AND DESTROYING CHILDREN AND PARENTS LIVES FOR GENERATIONS. FAMILIES ARE AFFLICTED BY THIS MAFIA OF FAMILY COURT AND THIS PLAGUE AND PANDEMIC THAT HAS NOT JUST DESTROYED ILLINOIS, BUT THE REST OF THE COUNTRY TOO.WE START BY VOTING THESE JUDGES OUT ALL OVER ILLINOIS AND AMERICA.LETS START WITH JUDGE McCOY IN PEORIA COUNTY ILLINOIS. CALL HIM AND LET HIM KNOW HOW UNJUST AND UNRESPONSIBLE OR EVEN CRIMMINAL HIS ACTION AND VERDICTS ARE. CALL 309-672-6036 OR OTHER PEORIA COUNTY ILLINOIS JUDGES AND CONTACT NUMBERS TO EXPRESS OUR FIRST AMENDMENT RIGHTS.LET OTHERS KNOW WHAT KIND OF JUDGE HE IS SO WHEN VOTERS READ JUDGE RICHARD McCOY ON THE BALLOT THESE INSTANTLY THINK
"NO WAY IN HELL" .VOTE NO IN THE FUTURE FOR JUDGE McCOY IN CENTRAL ILLINOIS

THANK YOU
DAVID IHBEN

david-ihben said...

i would also like to state that i am not promoting violence of any kind . we will win this crisis and rescue our children from unfair illinois family court system with our votes and public peaceful protests.

4/30/2010
david ihben

david-ihben said...

WHAT A BREATH OF REALITY AND FRESH AIR BY MR. THOMAS OF ILLINOIS FATHERS .ORG. THIS IS A PANDEMIC, THAT NOT ONLY FACES EVERY COUNTY IN ILLINOIS BUT THE ENTIRE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA. THE WHOLE WORLD FOR THAT MATTER. V.A.W.A. (THE VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMAN ACT) SOUNDS WONDERFUL DOESN'T IT. A GREAT LAW TO PROTECT WOMAN AGAINST ACTUALLY GUILTY )ABUSERS OR COWARDS WHO PREY ON WOMAN .THESE CRIMMINALS DESERVE MORE THAN THE UNITED STATES CONSTITUTION ALLOWS UNDER THE LAW. THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT STARTING WITH PRESIDENT BILL CLINTON SIGNED V.A.W.A. IN 1994. AND THAN GEORGE BUSH RE-SIGNED IT AGAIN( SO THE REPUBLICANS AND DEMOCRATS ARE BOTH MAKE MONEY OF THE TORTURING OF CHILDREN AND THE NON-CUSTODIAL PARENT; WHICH ACCORDING TO ILLINOIS FAMILY STUDY - 92% OF SOLE ,LEGAL CUSTODY IS GIVEN TO THE MOTHER BECAUSE SHE HATES THE HER EX AND WHATS REVENGE .AND TO SEE HIM SUFFER, BUT ALSO THEY CHILD SUFFERS THE MOST. BY THE MOTHER GETTING BACK AT THE FATHER USING THE CHILD IS THE MOST HURTFUL FORM OF CHILD ABUSE THERE IS . IT IS CALLED "PARENTAL ALIENATION" THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT GIVES STATES THROUGH V.A.W.A. 4.2 BILLION DOLLARS TO THE STATES MATCHING DOLLAR FOR DOLLAR FOR EVERY DOLLAR OF CHILD SUPPORT PAYED IN AND COLLECTED BY WHATEVER MEANS POSSIBLY. THIS MONEY THEN GOES TO JUDGES PENSION FUNDS , RAISES FOR STATE EMPLOYEES, AND STATE REPS AND STATE AND COUNTY GOVERNMENT AGENCY'S PET PROJECTS. AS YOU CAN SEE THE ILLINOIS FAMILY COURT SYSTEM DOES NOT DO WHAT IS IN THE BEST INTERTEST OF THE CHILD TO SOLVE ISSUES BUT PROLONGS THE TORTURE OF THE CHILD FOR MONEY. THIS HAS TO STOP.WELL LETS TALK ABOUT THE ILLINOIS FAMILY COURT SYSTEM AND THEIR GENDER ANTI-MALE ATTITUDE. STOP GIVING WOMAN ALL THE RIGHTS AND THE FATHER NONE. STOP PAYING FOR AN ATTORNEY FOR THE WOMAN AND TREATING THE MAN AS A SLAVE AND PAYCHECK OR YOU THROW HIM IN JAIL. WE NEED CHANGE AND WE NEED IT KNOW . CHECK OUT ILLINOIS FATHERS.ORG - CHILDREN'S RIGHTS COUNCIL OF ILLINOIS= OR DAVID IHBEN'S CHANNEL ON YOU TUBE THANK YOU AGAIN RICHARD THOMAS

david-ihben said...

PLEASE CHECK DAVID IHBEN'S CHANNEL ON YOU-TUBE FOR IMPORTANT INFORMATION

paul said...

I am a victim of violence from my wife as well. I live in Mclean County. She has punched me, slapped me, kicked me in the balls, and many other things. The thing is, I caught ALL of it on video tape and audiotape and the States Attorney REFUSES to press charges. Now she has taken our child and wont let me visit. I have not saw my child in 2 months, but yet my lawyer and the police cannot do anything about it. Any help would be appreciated.

PATRIOT OF ILLINOIS said...

hello please call me and i will see if i can help you
david ihben
309-222-5473

PATRIOT OF ILLINOIS said...

ON THE MORNING OF NOVEMBER 23, 2010 COURT WATCHERS AND RALLIERS FOR SUPPORT WELCOME DAVID IHBEN WILL BE ATTENDING A COURT HEARING AT TAZEWELL COUNTY COURTHOUSE COURTROOM 203(IN PEKIN ,ILLINOIS. JUDGE MAUR PRESIDING.FIRST OF ALL I AM NOT BLAMING THIS JUDGE FOR ANYTHING YET. I AM GOING THEIR TO INFORM THE ILLINOIS FAMILY COURT SYSTEM THAT THE GIG IS UP.THE GAME IS OVER.I WILL BE THE FIRST TO STAND UP AND DEMAND MY RIGHTS BY READING INTO THE COURT RECORD (WORD BY WORD) THE CONSTITUTION, BILL OF RIGHTS, THE DECLARATION OF INDEPENDENCE,I HAVE DREAM SPEECH (MARTIN LUTHER KING) AND THE GETTYSBURG ADDRESS(ABRAHAM LINCOLN).THIS IS TO ESTABLISH THE LAWS OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA AND THAT IF THEY DON'T TREAT ALL PARENTS AND CHILDREN IN MY CASE AND OTHERS I WILL BE FILING A FEDERAL LAWSUIT AND HOPEFULLY A FEDERAL CLASS ACTION LAWSUIT ON BEHALF OF ALL OF THE ILLINOIS FAMILY COURT SYSTEM VICTIMS. PLEASE COME SUPPORT ME IN MY EFFORTS TO TURN THE TIDE TO FINALLY GET JUSTICE OUT OF THIS OUT OF CONTROL ILLINOIS FAMILY COURT SYSTEM

Shirley Lincoln Caught Destroying Evidence...


...Of Her History of Domestic Violence & Mental Illness. My ex loves to cry abuser when there aren't any eyes to watch. She is a liar that wants you to believe her, 'America's Victim.' Well, she is America's Perp. Notice how she waits until I'm outside and no one is inside ot watch her. She re-enters my residence and with out any hesitation, marches right up to the camera, the eye that doesn't lie. Listen as she handles the camera, trying to take our eyes off of her. Here she tries to circumvent the video camera monitoring her so she can't lie and make false claims of domestic violence. First she thinks that she has the camera off, then she destroys papers I put on the Piano that show her pscyhopathic personality. There is another clip coming that shows her destroying an audio tape of her murder threat to me from May 18th 2002 in the morning. She is an abuser and a monster behind 4 walls that cannot be trusted. This is a video catching the abuser trying to set the playing field for her historic false allegations. The abuser caught in the act!

Shirley Lincoln Caught Destroying Evidence...


...Of Her Murder Threat to Me, Caught On Audio Tape the morning of May 18th, 2002.. She loves to make death threats, she thinks she is clever with making veiled death threats and when she is caught, lies her ass off denying it. Here you see her continuing to operated, thinking she took out the camera. Me, I'm still outside dealing with the KCPD who refuses to enforce Kidnapping and Interference with Custody Laws. See how she walks up to the cassette machine on the phone line, pops out the cassette, then disappears off camera, into the kitchen. She then returns, you see her place the tape back inside the player and she walks away, wrapping the tape around her hand. Earlier, the monster had asked to use the cordless phone. While using it (gee, fooled me, why didn't she use her cell phone?), she deleted the entry of her earlier call with the death threat. Alas, the phone in my basement office also had caller ID, so as sneaky and deceitful as she is, she didn't wax the proof, but nice try. Again, video footage of the abuser trying to cover her tracks of violence. A psychopath, caught in the act.

Shirley Lincoln Caught On Tape...


...Using my daughter as her tool of mental and emotional abuse in a call on June 7th, 2002. . She kidnapped Alexis 5/18/2002 and I didn't see Alexis again until December 6th, 2002 when Lincoln was found guilty of contempt. Audio that clearly satisfies the 'intent' part of the Parental Kidnapping Statue in Missouri. An abuser using a child to inflict pain, An abuser, using a child as a tool of power and control. Today, August 10th, 2008, my daughter Alexis is missing. The abuser is at large in Missouri and LAW ENFORCEMENT IS DOING NOTHING BECAUSE I AM A MAN.

Parental Alienation is child abuse...


...and here is an example with Shirley Lincoln's Little Minion Patty. This footage from June 2003 at a custody exchange with my daughter Alexis. Here Shirley Lincoln shows her inappropriate use of children to cause conflict and participation in Alienation activities. Watch as little (now 15) Patty walks in and does a perfectly rehearsed handoff of court papers to Lincoln. Patty then takes up position in front of the video camera to obstruct the view and checks the camera over her shoulder. Lincoln was trying to tamper with a contempt order and file a false violation of custody report. Sgt. Mike Wranich of the KCPD shows his attitude as well.

Alexis could have been killed...


...by Shirley Lincoln's Little Minion Patty on June 15th, 2008, while helping her mother violate child custody orders. Alexis was injured in a car accident on June 15th, 2008 when she was supposed to be here for her summer vacation in Chicago. Lincoln, facilitated by Eric Zahnd's refusal to prosecute criminal interference with custody was allowed to place Alexis in the back seat of an uninsured car, that Lincoln put her unlicensed daughter Patricia behind the wheel of. Patty caused an accident that injured Alexis and could have taken the life of my little girl. As you can see, Patty in the video above has been programmed by her mother as her helper, her minion. Patty has been taught by her mother to be a bully and an abuser. What is in this video here is 10 precious moments of me and my little girl, Alexis when she was 20 months old.

Lincoln wants everyone to believe she is a good parent which we can see and hear that she is not. She tries to lie and convince people through deception, fraud and manipulation that I am not a good father. I think we can tell by the nature of this blog, I'm very much a good father who has been trying to stop an abuser from harming me AND my daughter. What I have here in this 10 minute clip is the precious time I spent with my daughter that Lincoln can't steal. Lincoln is an abuser, a thief of time, a liar, a total psychopath. She thrives on inflicting pain and despair. I know her monster better than her, that is why I share this video with you, a small piece of my baby's life with her great dad (who is exceptionally modest).

Should judicial discipline be taken out of the hands of the judiciary?

Should judges be held accountable for allowing lawyers to file false, perjured and frivilous pleadings with no penalty?

Should applications for Child Support be denied without a divorce decree or separation order of support? (Married/Divorced Parents Only)

Should a parent who makes false allegations of child sexual abuse for the purposes of child custody get only Supervised Visitation?

Perjury in family court should be aggressively prosecuted?

Perjured applications for child support should be denied and aggressively prosecuted?

It should be mandated that child support arrears should be prohibited if a parent has interfered with custody & visitation during dissolution or custody proceedings?

I believe that child support arrearages given to a parent who has interfered with custody only encourages future denials of custody & visitation?

Do you believe that Judges and Prosecutors who refuse to enforce child custody are responsible for the escalation of domestic violence by non-custodial parents?

Do you believe that interference with custody is a willful action by the offending parent to cause significant mental & emotional distress on the victim child(ren)?

Do you believe that interference with custody is a willful action by the offending parent to inflict significant mental & emotional distress on the non-custodial parent?